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Loyal Love

From this day you we born just about 8 weeks ago. This blog will be for you and when you get old enough I hope you appreciate the words.

As I sit and begin to write I am watching you in your white swing. We refer to the mobile with the lambs that spin as your friends. You like your swing very much but right now you are quite fussy and I have gotten up several times to replace the "bink" in your mouth.

I am watching a movie called The Rocker right now, using a Dell, having a MGD all in our apartment in Ft. Collins. You just got back from your Gram's where your mom went to help clean her house for Thanksgiving dinner.

My browser is open to Blogger, Facebook and GoDuke.com to check the Duke game. You are not aware of yet but your are a die hard Duke fan. Your Great Granddad graduated from Duke and from the time I can remember your Granddaddy has always made sure we were loyal fans.

Your Granddad had a knack for keeping us kids loyal and keeping us away from the bandwagon. From Duke to the Broncos, Rockies and Yankees, there was a lesson. Loyalty.

As the years go on I meet people and some are friends, colleagues, acquaintances and so forth. Your mom gets makes fun of me for friends or lack there of. I have a pretty tight knit of friends, most of which you will come to know.

One of my favorite movies is the Godfather. Aside from the crime and wrongs done in the movies, the common theme is loyalty. They make an oath of loyalty when members join. No matter what the members of the "family" are loyal. Member would not for one second sell out their family members.

All in all I encourage you to be loyal. Keep loyal friends and be loyal to all of them. Remember, I will always be loyally loving and at no point will I break that.

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